Archive for February, 2009

Confession #7 I am scared to death of potty training Monkey. Can I just leaver her in diapers until she’s old enough to figure it out on her own? Advertisements

Spring Cleaning


I’ve decided that I need to do some personal “Spring Cleaning” so to speak. I know I’m a tad bit early, but – this needs to happen. First, Ms Single Mama has inspired me. She’s on a self-imposed Man Diet. I think I will follow suit. I seem to have a bad habit of picking […]

I must confess some things, because if I don’t my head will get all clogged up with the things that I can never say out loud. First – I love Monkey, and wouldn’t give her up to save my life, but God help me. She is DRIVING ME INSANE. She’s going through her Terrible 2’s […]

That Man.


The donor. Monkey’s biological father. I am currently at my wit’s end about him. He provides no type of support for her, in fact wants nothing to do with her. When I refused to have the abortion, he said that it would be a long, hard road for me – but he would help out […]

Friday afternoon, Monkey and I paid a visit to my Trinidadian Mother and Grandmother. It was overall a good visit – but I must share part of the visit with you. I’m sincerely amazed with myself for bringing one of our subjects of discussion up – and then whole-heartedly deciding to submit my self to […]

As I will be celebrating Valentine’s alone (with the exception of Monkey, she is my little Valentine, all the love I could ever need!) I thought a history of Valentine’s day would be in order. See who St. Valentine was, and some of the history of the day here, at What are your plans??? […]

I’ve finally realized that being a single parent truly sucks. I work nights so that Monkey doesn’t have to go to day care and so that I know that she is well cared for when she is not with me. The other major reason that I work nights is because well, I just plain can’t […]