Posts Tagged ‘the donor’

A New Leaf?

11Jul09

The Monkey is currently¬†with her Donor. Seriously. He’s actually had her for the last 3 hours. And, I don’t have to go get her at a set time tomorrow! I’m liking the way things are going, but I’m certainly not counting on them staying that way. As much as I’d like to believe that he’s […]


Monday evening I got a surprise….. The Donor called me. Not only did he call me, he was friendly. Wait – there’s more too. He asked if he could keep The Monkey that night. I was shocked and amazed. Tuesday morning I went to pick her up and he handed me a little envelope and […]


We used to be good friends. Best friends, actually. Then – we crossed a line. We had sex – we had had sex before, but we both knew then that it was nothing meaningful. We were both young, and ignorant. Except for this time, a baby was conceived. Then – he asked me to do […]


Small Victories

23Mar09

Nothing much new. We saw Monkey’s donors sister Sunday. She was all excited to see the little one. She was so amazed that Monkey has manners. “Well of course she has manners – you don’t think I’m just going to let her run around here and not say please, thank you, sir or ma’am – […]


The past weekend was generally ok. Yay for House Warming parties, Hennessy, and Paul Masson! Boo for fake friends, hosts of parties that are never around, and dead-beat dads. First – I went to a house warming Friday night while the donor’s parents had Monkey. Paul Masson is great! I had an awesome time. Played […]


That Man.

17Feb09

The donor. Monkey’s biological father. I am currently at my wit’s end about him. He provides no type of support for her, in fact wants nothing to do with her. When I refused to have the abortion, he said that it would be a long, hard road for me – but he would help out […]


Today is just one of those days for me – I’m feeling all crappy and down. I realized today that even though I have a boyfriend – I’m a single parent and it’s just me and Baby Crazy. Sure he helps out – but… well, I don’t know how to explain it, but he’s not […]